Reality Of life Beyond Social media, Be a Social Media Influencer Instead.

Life Beyond Social Media

SETTING SCENE

A boy named Rahul went to his nearby park for some photo-shoots.

(Was he a photographer or a model?

No, nothing like that.)

Actually, he was not getting enough likes and comments in his instagram accounts and that was all about.

In the park, Rahul was busy taking snaps and selfies  whereas on the other side  Manohar Singh was sitting on the lawn and enjoying everything around.

(Now, who’s Manohar Singh?

He is 70 year old man who looks as young as 30 years of gentleman.)

He’s having warm smile on his face seeing the kids playing football in the park roaming here and there laughing with joy and much fun.

What do you observe in above incident in terms of inner peace and happiness?

According to that, there is vast difference between the happiness inside Rahul and Manohar Singh, isn’t it?

Rahul is just obsessed with taking those pictures of himself and busy filtering such stuff caring about the expected likes and comments towards that one filtered  selfie.

That truly defines the temporary happiness which leads to pleasure feeling for the least time which is actually not sure as he is acting upon those figures of likes and comments system.

Whereas on the other side, Manohar Singh is enjoying sitting well on the free lawn with that great smile watching kids playing football and sky above him feeling the nature’s breeze within.

(Now who’s enjoying the actual moment? Of course Manohar Singh do and Rahul absolutely not)

What is life beyond social media?

The social media is just like dust over the glass.

If the addiction of social media doesn’t reduced then you won’t realize the clarity of what the actual life is.

Feelings( New Emoji) 

We’ve often used the smiley face emoji symbol to reply and chat with our people reacting to their stories and status of whatsapp, facebook, instagram photos and such kind of social media platforms.

Do we really know or experience the moment of life with true feelings towards our people?

There is the fact that laughter is the best medicine but it’s way too good to have smile in our practical life as compared to social media platforms.

Relationships

In social media life we might have so many engaging friends and followers who always likes and comment on your picture or a selfie which is posted on.

But do we have real friends who really care about us irrelevant to social media platforms?

Are we so obsessed with our likes and followers?

Most probably youth around us possesses fake relationship  which may seems beautiful and attractive in facebook but in reality its not.

Expectations, judging V/S Reality

Sacred thing is that people expects a lot watching other’s stories and status of their life. That usually creates envious feeling inside which really breaks the person within self.

Thinking about what they are doing, how beautiful life they got, how blessed they are,kills us inside and demotivates us throughout the life if continued.

Even the person who is posting knows its fake and still keep posting such stuff to jealous others feeling proud.

For example, 

A person is in café and posting the pic of “coffee” saying “SUNDAY FUNDAY”, you will feel down within and wishing if you were him/her.

That literally doesn’t make sense, is it?

Maybe that person is not so much happy about coffee compared to your expectations.

Time

There is almost 2 to 3 hours of minimum usage of mobile phones where social media leads our life to the entire day.

We are not even interested about what is going on around.

If someone is travelling in the bus then also he/she is not taking single moment to look around and observe the life around them.

That goes same to the trip as well, most of the people are busy taking the pictures of the landscapes and lakes just to share with their people to make them jealous whereas being around the place such as mountain means a lot to observe and watch the surroundings.

And in the end, a very common excuse is not having enough TIME.

So now what if today you won’t have internet connection?

So much time, eh?!

Ways to prevent yourself from the addiction of social media and how to be happy:

·     Create the situation by yourself to switch the attention.

·     Make friends younger than you and play something outside.

·     Go out for a walk with nothing just you and yourself.

·     Introspect yourself about daily usage of it and try reducing it. Start with 10 minutes.

·     Try not to take pictures of foods and landscapes rather watch the view and feel it.

·     Unfollow or delete those social media accounts from where you always feel envious.

·     Accept the fact that whatever you see in the stories or status of your friends are not real as showed in it.

Social Media is not that bad (As a professionalism and content creator) 

Be a social media influencer

Matter of the fact , with the right usage in right direction always leads to something good in life. #inspirational messages 

Similarly in terms of career, profession or side hustle, business start-ups, social media platforms makes a huge impact.

Many successive people as YouTube creator or blogger(creating blogspot for free) are earning through social media which is the great opportunity for career.

One can have lots of information totally free through it which is a good thing if used properly.

POETRY !

Obsessed with smiley face emoji and filter,

Using whatsapp and snapchat.

They are here,

Wasting time on chit-chat,

Posting stories  stating there 

As “Fun eating kit-kat”.

There are ways to prevent

Which really takes not a single cent.

Consuming anything in excess,

Literally let you in a mess

‘Life beyond Social Media’

A disease affecting people like a bacteria.

Thank You

Keep Spreading Wisdom!