Why Do You Compare With Others?
Have An Empathy!
Hey learner!
Before everything I must recommend you to check out this post
Hope you've read and understand that.
Let's see why do we compare and how should we cure ourselves through inspiration...
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| It is just a Fruit |
Why the comparison came into existence in your life?
What do you observed in this picture?
Whether it is green apple or red apple, apple is just a fruit.
No doubt about it's taste, it may differs because both of them having different roots and different growth.
Similarly, as it is just a fruit of apple, we compare it to the different species, we compete with people who have the same skills or outlook in life as us.
When another person's skills have no bearing on our life, we rarely feel threatened.
Highs And Lows
(Have an empathy)
Note:- Here your competition is with yourself only, before understanding that let me tell you that the person you are comparing with is your mental competitor.
The comparison takes place in the same field of yours mainly or sometimes not depending upon your level of jealousy.
Highs
What should you be doing if you are better than your mental competitor?
Think about the exact same situation as you were him at your beginning phase.
Always ask yourself: How did you manage other's opinions and survived?
Putting yourself in the same situation of other person is EMPATHY.
Feel those vibes and let that person not be your competitor.
Lows
What should you be doing if mental competitors are better than you?
Think about the process he has gone through before yourself.
Always ask yourself: How did he manage other's opinions and survived?
And
Remember: How they did this is more important than what they are!
Don't let internet rush you
Be an Inspirer Instead And Be Yourself.
Before anything you should know your level of jealousy first.
It may be bitter to you but being honest is better for you.
Whatever work, job or business you are doing, you should be strong enough to be yourself in that stuff.
Think about this:
How would you inspire others if your mind and brain is fed with negativity or jealousy and comparison.
Do things with honesty.
You don't need to be famous or to get rich to be honest.
Doing things honestly, kindly, patiently, nicely, calmly will inspire a lot of your employees and people connected with you.
One Day This All Will Pass Including You, Make Sure Your Life Story Is Worth Inspiring.
Ethic Statement: Don't be afraid to fly, If you'll fall or not, either way you are going to die.
Fly, Fail,
Repeat Again!
ALL THE BEST FOR EVERYTHING.
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Keep Spreading Wisdom!
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Don't Compare, Get Inspired Instead! Better Be An Inspirer
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February 22, 2019
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February 22, 2019
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The first principle is that you must not fool yourself and you are the easiest person to fool.
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Well said 💬🙏
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